Tuesday, December 23, 2008

A Very Special Lore and Ipsum

Dear Readers, 

I met a man who sparkles and shines.  We met through online dating and went on two dates.  And then I saw this.

He will call me when we get back into town.  Here's the question:  do I tell him why I don't want to see him again? 




6 comments:

Anonymous said...

At this point I would wonder whether you'd been able to confirm the details at your link; it seems like it might be possible for this to be done maliciously.

If you are confident that it is accurate... I would say don't tell him. It's tempting to think that it would be good for him to know that karma had bitten him, but I think that if you tell him he'll just take it as an opportunity to tell his side of the story. Which, if you don't want to see him again, you don't want to give him that opportunity.

JC said...

Yeah, what 'g' said.

It sounds like you have decided for sure that you believe her post. In your position, I probably would too. If he seems too good to be true...why take a chance and get played?

That really sucks. I'm sorry for your disappointment.

Mark said...

Sorry to hear this - but I would approach the linked info with a skeptical eye. I would try to confrim what she is saying. For instance, contact her and ask her to tell you which dating sites he uses and go from there.

Or you could just kick him in the nuts.

Predoctoral Intern said...

I would go with what Mark said. Contact her for details. Also, another reason I wouldn't tell him about why you don't want to see him again is that it may lead to some kind of backlash against her, and if he is a terrible liar, he may also be capable of other terrible things.

Anonymous said...

I have a better plan. Let's discuss it at your first convenience.
Full Disclosure: It will involve having sex with him at least once.
Let me know,
Pterry

Anonymous said...

You probably shouldn't kick him in the nuts.